許多時候,小朋友的話簡單直接而且誠實,直擊問題核心,值得大人深省!

 

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我想要用一個問題來開場: 你上次被人家說「幼稚」是什麼時候? 我們小孩 常被別人說「幼稚」 我們只要有不合理的要求 做事不負責任 或不過做些 一般美國人都會做的事 我們就被別人說「幼稚」 我真的不喜歡這樣 畢竟看看以下這些例子 帝國主義、殖民統治 兩次世界大戰、小布希 大家捫心自問,這些該怪誰?大人!

現在來看看孩子做了些什麼 女孩安妮寫下憾動人心的日記 呈現猶太人遭屠殺的歷史 黑人小女孩露比促進美國族群融合 還有最近 英國小男孩查理幫海地募到 十二萬英鎊 他只靠騎著小腳踏車就辦到了 所以, 從這些例子可以看出 年紀小根本不成問題 所謂的「幼稚」 太常在大人身上看到了 所以我們不該再用這個歧視年齡的字眼 不應該用它來批評那些 不負責任和非理性思考的行為


還有 誰說非理性思考 一定不會為世界所需呢? 也許你們也曾有過遠大的夢想 卻裹足不前 心想「不可能啦」或是「要花很多錢」 或是「這對我沒好處」 無論如何,我們小孩比較不會被綁住 比較不會找藉口逃避 小孩有各式各樣的志向 和樂觀的想法 比方說我希望世上沒有人挨餓 所有東西都免費,像烏托邦一樣 你們有誰還抱有這樣的夢想? 有誰認為這可能成真? 有時候對歷史太了解 加上有美好理想落空的經驗 反而會被束縛住 因為你們知道如果一切都免費 那食物存量將會短缺 然後耗竭,最後造成社會失序 但另一方面 我們小孩還是夢想世上有「完美」存在 這樣很好 因為想要讓一件事成真 得要先有夢想的藍圖。

許多方面來說,小孩因為敢大膽想像 許多事從不可能變成可能 例如,華盛頓州塔柯馬的玻璃博物館 我的家鄉-- 耶--華盛頓州! (觀眾鼓掌) 有一門課程叫做「孩童玻璃設計」 小孩用自己的想法來做玻璃藝術 駐館的藝術家就說 他們許多很棒的點子都來自這門課 因為孩子們不會為自己設限 不會去想吹玻璃塑型有多難 他們只會去想些好點子 想到玻璃 你們可能想到藝術家奇葫里多彩的設計 或是義大利式花瓶 但小孩向玻璃藝術師下戰帖 做出了超乎想像的「心碎之蛇」 還有「培根男孩」,注意他有「肉視」的能力喔! (觀眾笑聲)

其實,所謂的智慧 不一定是指學者專家的知識 小孩已經從大人身上學到很多了 我們也有很多東西想跟大人分享 我想大人應該要開始跟小孩學習 我現在常在教育界人士面前演講 有老師有學生,我很喜歡以下這個說法: 不該只有老師站在教室前面 告訴學生做這做那 學生也應該來教老師 大人和小孩之間 應該彼此學習 但現實卻和理想有些差距 這和信不信任對方有關,或可說彼此缺乏信任。

如果不信任某人,就會對那個人多加限制,對吧? 如果我覺得我姐姐還不了 向我借來的錢那10%利息 這個我訂下的利率 我就不會再借錢給她 除非她把錢還我(觀眾笑聲) 對了, 這件事完全屬實。 大人好像 都喜歡管小孩 只要是任何違反校規的事 都不能做 連學校上網也有限制 自古以來,許多政權之所以高壓統治 是因為怕管不住人民 雖然大人還說不上是 完全的「極權」 但是小孩對規定也幾乎無權過問 儘管態度應該是互相的 也就是說大人應該要學著 把小孩的願望 也納入考量

有一件比管教更嚴重的事 就是大人常常低估小孩的能力 我們喜歡挑戰,但大人如果期望不高 我保證,我們小孩就會爛給你看 我的爸媽從不會看輕 我和我姊 他們沒有叫我們以後要當醫生 或是律師之類的 但我爸以前會讀故事給我們聽 像是亞里斯多德的故事 和「抗菌先鋒」的故事。 相較之下,同齡小孩那時多半在聽 「哥哥爸爸真偉大」之類的 其實我們也聽兒歌,但「抗菌先鋒」比較讚 (觀眾笑聲)

打從四歲起,我就喜歡寫東西 我六歲時 媽媽就買了裝有微軟Word作業系統的筆電給我 要謝謝比爾蓋茲,也要謝謝老媽! 我寫的三百多則短篇故事 都是用那台筆電完成 我後來想出書 我爸媽不但沒笑我 說小孩子還想出書這類的話 也沒要我長大再說 反而很支持我 但找了很多出版社都碰壁 一家規模很大的童書出版社竟然說 他們不跟小孩合作 童書出版社不跟孩童合作? 不知道耶,但不就失去我這棵搖錢樹了。 (觀眾笑聲) 有一家出版社叫「行動出版社」 決定放手一搏,相信我 願意聽我的想法 他們出版了我第一本書《飛舞的手指》,就是這本 從那時起,我就受邀到上百所學校演講 在數千個教育工作者發表演說 也才會有今天的演講

很感謝你們今天的聆聽 因為真正在乎的人 才懂得傾聽 不過問題是 小孩雖然好像比大人優秀 但小孩還是會長大,不就成為像你們一樣的大人了 (觀眾笑聲) 但真的是這樣嗎? 真正的目標不是要讓小孩成為你們♫ 而是要超越你們 雖然可能有點困難 畢竟你們學經歷都滿了不起的 不過世界之所以會進步 就是因為新的世代、新的時代 不斷成長發展,進而比上個世代更好 這也是為什麼我們能脫離黑暗時代 不論你們現在的地位為何 一定要幫孩子們創造機會 好讓我們長大後能打敗你們 (觀眾笑聲)

所有大人和 TED的成員 請傾聽小孩的聲音並向小孩學習 並且相信我們,對我們期望高一點 你們現在得耐心傾聽 因為未來是我們小孩作主 也就是說以後是我們要照顧你們 不然你們老了怎麼辦,好啦開玩笑的 不過,我們這個世代 將會帶領這個世界前進 如果還認為這不重要 記得有所謂複製人的技術 你們有機會重回童年 到時你們也會希望自己的聲音不被忽視 就像我們一樣 現今世界各國都需要把機會 交給未來主人翁,讓他們展現新穎的想法 小孩需要這些機會學習領導和體驗成功的滋味 你們準備好把機會交給我們了嗎? 因為當今世界上各種問題 應該不會是人類想留給子孫的遺產才對

謝謝 (觀眾鼓掌) 謝謝大家



(觀眾鼓掌)

謝謝


English version:

Now, I want to start with a question: When was the last time you were called childish? For kids like me, being called childish can be a frequent occurrence. Every time we make irrational demands, exhibit irresponsible behavior, or display any other signs of being normal American citizens, we are called childish, which really bothers me. After all, take a look at these events: Imperialism and colonization, world wars, George W. Bush. Ask yourself: Who's responsible? Adults.

Now, what have kids done? Well, Anne Frank touched millions with her powerful account of the Holocaust, Ruby Bridges helped end segregation in the United States, and, most recently, Charlie Simpson helped to raise 120,000 pounds for Haiti on his little bike. So, as you can see evidenced by such examples, age has absolutely nothing to do with it. The traits the word childish addresses are seen so often in adults that we should abolish this age-discriminatory word when it comes to criticizing behavior associated with irresponsibility and irrational thinking.

(Applause)

Thank you.


Then again, who's to say that certain types of irrational thinking aren't exactly what the world needs? Maybe you've had grand plans before, but stopped yourself, thinking: That's impossible or that costs too much or that won't benefit me. For better or worse, we kids aren't hampered as much when it comes to thinking about reasons why not to do things. Kids can be full of inspiring aspirations and hopeful thinking, like my wish that no one went hungry or that everything were free kind of utopia. How many of you still dream like that and believe in the possibilities? Sometimes a knowledge of history and the past failures of utopian ideals can be a burden because you know that if everything were free, that the food stocks would become depleted, and scarce and lead to chaos. On the other hand, we kids still dream about perfection. And that's a good thing because in order to make anything a reality, you have to dream about it first.


In many ways, our audacity to imagine helps push the boundaries of possibility. For instance, the Museum of Glass in Tacoma, Washington, my home state -- yoohoo Washington -- (Applause) has a program called Kids Design Glass, and kids draw their own ideas for glass art. Now, the resident artist said they got some of their best ideas through the program because kids don't think about the limitations of how hard it can be to blow glass into certain shapes. They just think of good ideas. Now, when you think of glass, you might think of colorful Chihuly designs or maybe Italian vases, but kids challenge glass artists to go beyond that into the realm of broken-hearted snakes and bacon boys, who you can see has meat vision. (Laughter)


Now, our inherent wisdom doesn't have to be insiders' knowledge. Kids already do a lot of learning from adults, and we have a lot to share. I think that adults should start learning from kids. Now, I do most of my speaking in front of an education crowd, teachers and students, and I like this analogy. It shouldn't just be a teacher at the head of the classroom telling students do this, do that. The students should teach their teachers. Learning between grown ups and kids should be reciprocal. The reality, unfortunately, is a little different, and it has a lot to do with trust, or a lack of it.


Now, if you don't trust someone, you place restrictions on them, right. If I doubt my older sister's ability to pay back the 10 percent interest I established on her last loan, I'm going to withhold her ability to get more money from me until she pays it back. (Laughter) True story, by the way. Now, adults seem to have a prevalently restrictive attitude towards kids from every "don't do that," "don't do this" in the school handbook, to restrictions on school internet use. As history points out, regimes become oppressive when they're fearful about keeping control. And, although adults may not be quite at the level of totalitarian regimes, kids have no, or very little, say in making the rules, when really the attitude should be reciprocal, meaning that the adult population should learn and take into account the wishes of the younger population.


Now, what's even worse than restriction is that adults often underestimate kids abilities. We love challenges, but when expectations are low, trust me, we will sink to them. My own parents had anything but low expectations for me and my sister. Okay, so they didn't tell us to become doctors or lawyers or anything like that, but my dad did read to us about Aristotle and pioneer germ fighters when lots of other kids were hearing "The Wheels on the Bus Go Round and Round." Well, we heard that one too, but "Pioneer Germ Fighters" totally rules. (Laughter)


I loved to write from the age of four, and when I was six my mom bought me my own laptop equipped with Microsoft Word. Thank you Bill Gates and thank you Ma. I wrote over 300 short stories on that little laptop, and I wanted to get published. Instead of just scoffing at this heresy that a kid wanted to get published, or saying wait until you're older, my parents were really supportive. Many publishers were not quite so encouraging. One large children's publisher ironically saying that they didn't work with children. Children's publisher not working with children? I don't know, you're kind of alienating a large client there. (Laughter) Now, one publisher, Action Publishing, was willing to take that leap and trust me, and to listen to what I had to say. They published my first book, "Flying Fingers," -- you see it here -- and from there on, it's gone to speaking at hundreds of schools, keynoting to thousands of educators, and finally, today, speaking to you.


I appreciate your attention today, because to show that you truly care, you listen. But there's a problem with this rosy picture of kids being so much better than adults. Kids grow up and become adults just like you. (Laughter) Or just like you, really? The goal is not to turn kids into your kind of adult, but rather better adults than you have been, which may be a little challenging considering your guys credentials, but the way progress happens is because new generations and new eras grow and develop and become better than the previous ones. It's the reason we're not in the Dark Ages anymore. No matter your position of place in life, it is imperative to create opportunities for children so that we can grow up to blow you away. (Laughter)


Adults and fellow TEDsters, you need to listen and learn from kids and trust us and expect more from us. You must lend an ear today, because we are the leaders of tomorrow, which means we're going to be taking care of you when you're old and senile. No, just kidding. No, really, we are going to be the next generation, the ones who will bring this world forward. And, in case you don't think that this really has meaning for you, remember that cloning is possible, and that involves going through childhood again, in which case, you'll want to be heard just like my generation. Now, the world needs opportunities for new leaders and new ideas. Kids need opportunities to lead and succeed. Are you ready to make the match? Because the world's problems shouldn't be the human family's heirloom.


Thank you. (Applause) Thank you. Thank you.



 

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